Thrive Marriage Frequently Asked Questions
Who are Chris Bruno and Tracy Johnson?
Chris Bruno and Tracy Johnson created and teach the material in the Thrive video curriculum based on conversations they were seeing in their counseling offices at ReStory. Both Chris and Tracy are highly qualified and have many years of experience in marriage counseling, intensives and retreats. They have agreed to lead us in an in-person retreat that follows well with the work we will be doing throughout the year as a group. This is an exciting opportunity! With their high level of expertise and experience, this is a valuable experience offered to our group at a fraction of the cost.
What is ReStory?
ReStory (formerly Restoration Counseling) was founded on the belief that God doesn't make mistakes. When he originally created and designed us, when he thought us up, he had wonderful and beautiful things in mind. Yet we were born into a broken world whose brokenness affects all of us at the deepest levels. He's not interested in trashing his creation but instead restoring us all to his original design. He will make all things new... again. That is the core of ReStory.
At Thrive we work to understand the stories at play in ourselves and our marriages. God willing by the power of the Spirit we can begin to restore our hearts to God and our spouse.
My marriage is pretty good, should I join?
First, this is a growth oriented program. If you feel you have no room to grow, you probably won’t get much out of this. However, many couples discover once they begin digging in and intentionally communicating with each other around these topics, there are actually many areas where growth is possible and a good marriage can become a thriving marriage.
I don’t like sharing in groups, is this for me?
Yes, each couple will be placed at their own tables separated from other couples by about 4 feet. We try to give as much privacy as possible. There will be a time to share your reflections as a couple, but this is never required and you will never be prodded to share more than what you feel comfortable with. This is an important commitment of ours. You can even escape to your car if you need more privacy to discuss things with your spouse!
I’ve been married so long, is this for me?
Yes! ReStory receives many inquiries every year from couples in their 60’s and 70’s in need of marriage support. Just because you have been married a long time doesn't mean you have things all figured out. Sometimes the painful ruts and habits a couple finds themselves in can feel heavy or more difficult in retirement or as empty nesters.
I am engaged, can I join?
Yes, the material presented provides a great launching point for couples preparing for marriage. However, please be aware that some of the material may not apply quite yet.
I don’t feel comfortable doing marriage work with fellow church goers, what can we do about this?
We get it. Church can be an awkward place to be vulnerable. Judgement and prejudice within churches have unfortunately hurt many people. We hope to work towards changing that. We have specific training around this issue and intend to do our best to create an environment where all couples belong and are given respect.
How many spots are available?
We will have 12 spots available.